5/5 — A Day of Gratitude & Reflection
Today marks 23 years since I was diagnosed with cancer—5th May 1999. This date always brings with it a wave of deep gratitude and reflection. What I’ve learned since that day has shaped not just my health, but my mindset, my work, and my life philosophy.
Here are just a few of the truths I hold close, born from experience:
You are the master of your mind, and thus your destiny. If you believe you can’t, you won’t. If you believe you can, and keep your energy aligned, you absolutely will.
High-vibe energy is key. Low-vibration states—fear, self-doubt, low self-esteem—can make us vulnerable, emotionally and physically. Staying in a high-vibration state protects and empowers us.
You can have whatever you want—or your reasons for not having it. Choose courage. If something doesn’t make your heart sing, honour yourself enough to walk away.
Know your worth. Trust that all will be well—because it will. Stay open, and you’ll attract the people, opportunities, miracles, and ideas that are waiting for you. Closed hearts block the flow.
Take action. Bold ideas are gifts—run with them. Thinking won’t conquer fear, but action will.
Failure is part of the process. I’ve failed. And I’ve grown. As Richard Branson says, “Don’t be embarrassed by your failures. Learn from them. Start again.” My fav is screw it lets do it!
Morning meditation/journaling is a game-changer. Creative visualisation helps me connect with my higher self—my intuition, my inner guidance, my best friend. Journaling is beyond powerful…
You get to a certain age and realise: you’ve survived—and thrived. The evidence is all there. You’re still standing. Stronger, wiser, and more you than ever.
There’s a power—a source—that connects us all to infinite intelligence. When we keep that connection strong, we tune into what I like to call Abundance FM. It’s a delicious, high-vibe channel straight to our intuition—our divine internal compass. Keep your vibrations channelled to your higher self whatever frequency that is.
Perseverance overcomes obstacles. Never give up. Keep showing up. Keep believing.
For anyone reading this today who may be navigating a hard patch—please know that you’re not alone. Life is a roller coaster: joy, loss, challenge, laughter, success, heartbreak, healing. The rainbow often comes after the storm, even when we can't yet see it.
Before my diagnosis, I had already built a thriving wellness business— A year ahead fully booked appointments diary, a vegetarian bistro (way before it was trendy and I cooked/prepared all the food) and a happy, bustling hub for self-care with a beautiful clientele… I was also stepping into spa consultancy. Cancer didn’t stop me—it redirected me. It became the catalyst to pursue the next dream: to create meaningful, authentic spa and wellness experiences in the Caribbean. And that’s exactly what I’ve done—building award-winning spas, rituals, and products with heart and purpose.
The photos I’m sharing today are a snapshot of that 23-year journey after cancer…
So wherever you are on your path: keep believing in your dreams. Follow your bliss. Honour your worth. Keep your vibration high.
I’m ready for my next chapter—I can already see it in my imagination. As Einstein said:
“Imagination is everything. It’s the preview of life’s coming attractions.”
With love,